If you feel as though your passion has been waning somewhat there can be several reasons behind this. Being seen, accepted, valued and cherished has a lot to do with it. If one is feeling unfulfilled in one of these ways that can have something to do with the lack of passion and spontaneity in the bedroom. Or maybe you feel like you don’t have the ability to please your partner in some way. No matter what the issue, communication is vital. If you want to learn how to feel like a confidant, ‘savage’ sex beast in bed once again hang around for a few and let’s discuss some ways to get him back.
- Stор Whining аnd Cоmрlаining
The firѕt рrinсiраl уоu need to rеаlizе is thе fасt thаt your partner needs to fееl your confidence in the bedroom. In оthеr wоrdѕ, this is not the time to unload and be a needy little boy. When you come from a place of personal power it is indeed a turn on. But if you start whining and complaining, that is definitely a light switch off for your partner’s libido.
The bedroom is a place to expression your love and not a way to get love and validation.
Be comfortable with yourself and your partner will in turn be turned on by you.
Foreplay begins long before you get to the bedroom. When people first start dating the anticipation to connect physically is heightened because they are connecting emotionally together. Then once you live together you get busy and no longer set time to be toether. Intimacy wanes and passions don’t flourish when you don’t play, learn and grow together any longer.
Playing together, laughing and joking together are parts of keeping your sex life fun and alive.
This is why it’s really important to make that time to connect by planning special dates or going on trips together.
Let’s face it variety is the spice of life. This doesn’t mean you have to bring new people into your relationship. It just means that routine is boring.
A boring routine kills the savage sex beast. Sharing different experiences and fantasies can help to open up the door to new excitement between you and your partner.
Good sex needs some mystery. Yes, it’s wonderful that your partner knows you like an open book but that doesn’t mean they have to know Everything!
You should always be growing and changing and working on yourself just as they should be to create a new and interesting person to come home to.
Are you being just too much of a pleaser?
Do you see a problem but are just trying to avoid the conflict in order to push it under the rug and pretend it doesn’t exist? Chances are your partner sees it too.
The quickest way to lose your passion for someone is by having resentment. This carries over to the bedroom faster than white on rice and can lead to you or your partner shutting down his/her feelings. Not good!
The truth is what goes on outside the bedroom is reflected in your sexual relationship.
People weren’t meant to shut down their feelings. Opening yourself up to being hurt is a part of being in a healthy relationship. The good thing is that with the right person, this can lead to better intimacy, spontaneity and massive passion in the bedroom.