They say that you can have too much of a good thing. There is no denying that sex is a good thing, but sometimes men can finish too quickly when they have sex. While premature ejaculation is very common for a lot of men, it can still be embarrassing, frustrating, and take all the fun out of having sex. However, don’t get discouraged. There are many ways to elongate the fun...and they are all free! Let’s take a look at how to last longer in bed.
Don’t Think About It
Premature ejaculation tends to happen in the head...and not in the one you are thinking of right now, but rather, the one you are thinking with. Finishing too soon is often a result of overthinking the situation. When things start to get hot-and-heavy, we get excited, and jump in with both feet. However, this sends the brain into overdrive. Thinking about how exciting it is while jumping into your best jackhammer is the best way to get things over in a jiffy. To slow down the fun, you need to slow down your mind. Instead of thinking about all the things you want to do to your partner, think of something else. Usually boring tasks like doing easy math problems in your head or coming up with the Capitals of all 50 states will help. Although, we don’t suggest thinking of your grandmother in her underwear. It may buy you time, but you also might lose your erection altogether!
If premature ejaculation has become an all too common event in your love life, one of the best ways to last longer is to masturbate an hour or two before the copulation begins. Doing this will de-sensitize your penis, allowing the shaft to last longer while it’s hard at work. Just be sure not to get your little friend stuck in a zipper like Ben Stiller in There’s Something About Mary, or you’ll have bigger problems than finishing too soon.
Part of the reason why you may not be lasting as long in bed is because you’re going at it full force. Take your time. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable. It is not a race. Every time you feel you are about to ejaculate, pull out and work on something else. You don’t even need to let your partner know what is going on. Just start making out or touching your partner, and you will buy yourself more time. When things settle, slip back in there!
Foreplay It Up
Sometimes foreplay is hotter than the sex act itself. While you may not be doing the actual deed for much longer, the whole act can become prolonged with a bit of foreplay. If you dive right into sex and finish immediately, that can be disappointing. However, if you spend time working your partner up with foreplay, they will perceive the experience as a long lasting one.
Another reason you may not be lasting as long in the bedroom might be a feeling of inadequacy with the size of your penis. If that is the case, there is no need to worry. Dr. Victor Loria of Loria Medical can help. He has perfected non-surgical techniques to achieve natural-looking erectile enlargement, such as his proven Platinum Procedure.
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